tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198602931516975415.post3455879553249362886..comments2023-04-20T08:00:33.061-07:00Comments on Finding Bliss in a Life More or Less Ordinary: Give me a BreakJamie Councilhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18353736497588373816noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198602931516975415.post-61290399076706443472010-08-19T04:41:22.444-07:002010-08-19T04:41:22.444-07:00I say leave it be.. Don't acknowledge that you...I say leave it be.. Don't acknowledge that you even recieved the letter... Maybe better yet, anymore that you recieve from him, quickly put "return to sender" on the front and send back , unopened. Or maybe shred the letter he sent you and put it all in a envelope and send it back.. But I like to not only get even with someone, I like to get one step ahead.. What he did to you and the kids is horrific to say the least. He deserves every bit of what he is getting and more.Mary Pannihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09417678888757850059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198602931516975415.post-4734330174836764152010-08-18T14:40:45.807-07:002010-08-18T14:40:45.807-07:00Yeah, Aggie did remind me several times that he wa...Yeah, Aggie did remind me several times that he was "a devious little midget" (Aggies nickname for his since the first meeting)and I'm pretty sure he thinks I'll cave in and be a sweet little pen pal. Not so much...Jamie Councilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18353736497588373816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198602931516975415.post-1038519514401216112010-08-18T08:23:31.803-07:002010-08-18T08:23:31.803-07:00I think I would be more worried about you if you d...I think I would be more worried about you if you didn't cry over his letter (whether they're tears of anger or sorrow for what could have been if he wasn't such a dickhead)! <br /><br />I'm with Tanzie and Gena on this! I think he's just looking for a way to start communicating again, and even if he is trying to find God, there's probably still a healthy amount of manipulation in his motives. <br /><br />Right now, I say just let it lie. If you think it would be good to write something out and then not send it, go for it, but I know it would just rile me up and make it that much harder to move on.<br /><br />I just want to say, I think you're pretty awesome for putting all this out there! I'm proud of you!Witless Expositionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07455282931743006892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198602931516975415.post-72981307322043002042010-08-18T08:09:49.053-07:002010-08-18T08:09:49.053-07:00I agree with TB. I think if you write him he will...I agree with TB. I think if you write him he will think it's okay to be pen pals.Gena's Gardenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03421574892806170638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198602931516975415.post-33421144608192364682010-08-18T03:50:50.036-07:002010-08-18T03:50:50.036-07:00Good point! I'm very much NOT willing to dialo...Good point! I'm very much NOT willing to dialogue!Jamie Councilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18353736497588373816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198602931516975415.post-87342776030148879782010-08-18T03:20:04.281-07:002010-08-18T03:20:04.281-07:00You asked,,,,
Anything at this point you write to ...You asked,,,,<br />Anything at this point you write to him, In my opinion, would be taken as an opening for discussion... i.e., you express your true deep feelings with words like daggers, He thinks, "well, now that she has that out, she can listen" and he writes back justifying, etc....then you have to figure out if you need to write again...It may be therapeutic to write it and throw it away,,but unless you are willing to open dialogue with him,,, don't respond...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14033862959593695397noreply@blogger.com